A grown man can exhibit the qualities of a boy, and a young man can exhibit the qualities of a man. You’re Unclear If You’re Actually Dating: A boy is rarely eager to make the relationship official because of his fear of rejection or his fear of commitment.
It just depends on his actions and where he is in life. A boy will have you playing the guessing game, where you’re constantly asking yourself “Are we really dating? He may even tell you that he’d rather just “hook up” or be friends instead of talking to you straight about where he is mentally and what he truly wants from the relationship.
“I don’t want this to be exclusive…” was the last thing I wanted to hear. “It’s not that there’s anything wrong with you, it’s just that I don’t want to get into a relationship.” Sure, that made all the difference. I’d never been in that situation before and it was going to be interesting.
She was beautiful, intelligent, funny, cool, and a sexual dynamo. Despite what my original misgivings, it turned out to be a smart decision.
If he wants to be with you, you’ll know it from the first series of dates. You Feel Like You’re Playing Mom: If you’re dating a boy, you may feel like you’re taking over the mom role.